Why I am blogging......

I started this blog to up-date others on the day-to-day events of our family. As the children grew older, and I grew wiser, I realized I wanted to change my direction, and the children wanted to be ommitted from the blog completely. I hope to still manage to include them from time to time but perhaps just through pictures. I am searching for my niche, and way to help lighten the load of others and perhaps lead others to my savior, Jesus Christ. I am focusing on "What really matters" and hopefully, I can help others in some small productive way. While I am changing gears, I will still be throwing in random thoughts, recipes and etc. I am glad you stopped by and bear with me, as I begin to grow and span my wings and fly in a new direction!

Sunday, November 30, 2008

Oh No it's Monday, almost......



Where does all my "free" time go?????? Just yesterday it way three days before Thanksgiving and I was feeling good about all the time I had to get things done. And before I could wink, it is Sunday night and I am feeling sad that all of last week has gone by so quickly. I did manage to get many things accomplished; house alittle more orangized, some shopping done, Christmas up, Thanksgiving down and done, one bathroom in the middle of renovation, stomach virus, (yuck, yuck) dog groomed, senior pics ordered, time with family,:), whew!

Today I visited my new neighbor Lisa. I am so proud she is just across the yard from me. We are just good friends, that share laughs, cries, and the same humor. I am so happy she is near.

We ate supper with Uncle Darrell, and Aunt Dawn , and Chase. We love being with them as much as Kyle does!

Time really does get away---I am taking it all in and enjoying every moment. HOpe everyone has a great week, remember Mondays=lots of coffee:)))))

Saturday, November 29, 2008

Loving Thanksgiving but........




I have been so busy and unable to blog. Thanksgiving was good, we enjoyed being with family. The plan was to come to our house, however, plans changed when I got up Wednesday with the stomach virus. Yuck!!! However, twelve hours later, I was ok. We went to Pa's and Griggy's and even though I was not hungry my family was and everything turned out great. Kallie and Evan ate with us then headed to Evan's house and ate with his family and then we all gathered at Pa and Janice's. Kyle seemed to enjoy himself, but duck season open Friday morning and he has been waiting on this since last season. He is a lucky boy, his cousin Chase takes him to his blind and hunts. He has been gone since Thursday night. They hunt every weekend and whenever they can during the week until it closes. I am glad he has Chase and Dawn and Darrell, he loves to go to their house and be with them. I think he is their entertainment!

Christmas decorations are up at our house. But I am already needing the lake, beach or some kind of water and sun. I know, winter is not even offically here and I am already longing for the hot sun. I just love it.

I hope everyone had a great holiday. It goes by so-o fast.

Friday, November 21, 2008

Weekend Plans


What a wacky, crazy, long but short week!? If you understand that you are in my mind-set. I am happy it is over and the weekend is here. I hope to go "junkin" tomorrow and also do some "real shopping. I am an internet shopper so for me to actually go shop it usually does not last long. Enjoy the weekend and find a way to get a---way:)

Thursday, November 20, 2008

What we need is each other....


Have you ever thought about how lonely it would be if we did not have each other? I sometimes enjoy being at home alone, but I am always ready for everyone to return. I enjoy talking to old friends and catching up and sharing old memories. Mark and I talk for hours about whatever pops up.

I realize that when my time is up all that will really matter is relationships, with God and someone special just to hold my hand. Thank you God for helping me to understand.

We need each other:)

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Information Overload.....


May I have a rocking chair, please? I often tell the ladies I work with that I am going to go home and rock in the corner!!! Overwhelmed is an understatement for me at the present. (for everyone!) When I come home in the afternoon I quickly turn the TV on Barefoot Contessa. This is my thirty minutes of hmmmmmm! I love, love, love her. Then I usually start a load of clothes and supper, etc. sound familiar? But if I just happen to flip the channel to 2, 4, or 5, or even CNN loom and gloom sits in, followed by dark storm clouds. I listen to the radio daily in my office, and often turn it down or off because storm clouds are developing. If I happen to have time to look at MSN on the internet often the clouds have developed on that site as well. I know that this country is struggling (to say the least) however, what is being done to help? Yes, gas is down, amen, but it seems someone needs to put their Superman cape on and fly through and rid us of the threating EF4 tornado! (why is it referred to as an EF now instead of just a F?) sorry ADD again. I am finding it hard to even think Christmas when all I hear is, now is not the time to but anything or make any big decisions.

I pray that our leaders will make good choices for our country. One thing I do know for sure.....I do not know what the future holds, but I do know who holds the future. Thank God for his Son and his saving grace.

Monday, November 17, 2008

Thanksgiving


I have been thinking about how I want my table to look for Thanksgiving. I can remember several years ago, Mark's Aunt Jozada hosted Thanksgiving. I will never forget how lovely her table looked. She has beautiful antique turkey plates. She told me they are very hard to find. Her goal is to have a twelve piece place setting for each of her boys. That is so nice of her; she is a sweet person.

I am thankful for the internet. I can always get ideas from several different sources.

This past weekend was a great one!! We stayed home Friday night, and did the normal Saturday things. (Walmart, etc.) Sunday after church, I went wa---y out of my comfort zone. I am a firm Sunday afternoon nap taker, and Titan watcher, but this Sunday after church I went four-wheeler riding with mark and the kids. I had a great time and learned it is nice to get out of my comfort zone!:) I had never been riding where they rode, and it was beautiful. Mark and I talked about it and he brought up a good point. We would never get to see this unless we had a four-wheeler. I agreed, but I honestly think he is trying to get me in the right frame of mind to drop the bomb. He wants a side-by-side something. Mark takes the bumper sticker on the back of our boat to heart. (which I did not even know was on there until recently) It reads, "Whoever dies with the most toys wins" ( or something like that) I know it is coming, I just do not know if it is a side-by-side or a jeep! He kept on saying, "Now Momma (he calls me that when he wants to persuade me) you would not get scared at all if we had a side-by-side.:):):) Anyway we went to some caves, the lake and alot of pretty places. I think spur-of-the-moment trips are the best. And I read being spontaneous keeps you young, so by all means, I will be!!!
I think it is neat the kids still "let" us be around. We like to think they always will...but probably not. You know me, I like having everyone in the nest!!! I am thankful that I realize to enjoy everyday and live it, because there may not be a tomorrow. When I was younger, I was just worried about "getting things done" and moving to the next function; That is sad, because I feel like I have not done several things that I should have, but I will make up for lost time and live for today. and maybe, just maybe I will be skinny and look younger too:):):):): Dream--------weaver------:):):):):)

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Some of my favorites





I like A.J. because he is just a good-ole-boy, that just happens to get paid the big bucks to be himself. He is so down-to-earth. I love folks like that! I will share a quick funny with ya...we were at the lake and I saw Alan's houseboat. I quickly lectured the kids to not stand up and yell at him that he deserved his privacy. Well, the closer we got to him, I noticed I got nervous. By the time we reached his boat, I was up yelling and screaming, ALAN, ALAN, ALAN!!! I was having an-out-of-body, well anyway, when I regained by composure, I looked and the kids and Mark were just sitting there calmly looking at ME being....well, Debbie!!!
Trace is just a gentleman. Every since Celebrity Apprentice, with the Donald, I have like Trace. Miranda Lambert is just a fireball!! Love,love, love her. And George, well he is soooooooo fine-------I love ALL his songs and him.

Seven Facts about Myself..strange/weird/funny/unusual...

1. I sing to Nick daily.
2. I am a carnivore (love meat)
3. I love fresh, real horseradish on peel and eat shrimp
4. I drink a diet coke every morning
5. I call my brothers "the thorns" of course I am "THE ROSE":)
6. Mark and I have nicknames that go wa-----y back, Poo and Doo, now we have the pooling and dooling and our grandchildren are going to call us Poo Poo and Doo Doo:)
7. I crow like a rooster at inappropriate times!

I feel like I have been to some kind of therapy, sharing my "guts". Kim Cantrell tagged me to share seven facts about me. Well, there you go. If you think I am a nut case (you would be right) I tag Kat and Susan. This should be great. Come one ladies, make me look normal:)heheheheheheheheheheeeeeeeee

My thoughts today...


I have thought a lot today about many different things. Christmas, (and by the way I will say Merry Christmas! People are trying to be too politically correct these days)Thanksgiving, prom, sr pictures, getting carpets cleaned, dog groomed, my birthday, work, project graduation, prom dresses, limos, leaves, Kallie not feeling well, supper whew-wwwwwwwwwwww I am in overdrive.(aren't we all)

I have promised my self to be true to God. To speak-up about my religion when it may be hard or uncomfortable for me to do so. To confess I worship a very real-loving-alive God and try to convience others to do the same. However, I also will admit I am a sinner. I think it is my responsibility to teach non-christians, that christians are not perfect. I have noticed that is the title some give to christians. This is such a mis-conception. We are just forgiven, however, grace is not a license to sin. We need to be the best we can be, and pattern our life after the perfect example,Jesus. I make many mistakes, but GRACE is a gift, (it cannot be earned) a gift from a loving-God that I want to serve. I also think it is important to realize we are here TO serve and not to BE served. Jesus, our example, served daily. I try to help someone in some small way every-day. It is not the extraordinary things we do, it is the everyday small things we can do, that lightens others loads that can makes a difference. I want to make a difference.

I am tired of thinking now!!!! My friend Delia thinks a lot and I often kid her about it!! I can't see how see does it; it wears me out!:)))))))))

My thoughts today...

Ben Stein on Religion




The following was written by Ben Stein and recited by him on CBS Sunday Morning Commentary.

My confession :
I am a Jew, and every single one of my ancestors was Jewish. And it does not bother me even a little bit when people call those beautiful lit up, bejeweled trees, Christmas trees.. I don't feel threatened. I don't feel discriminated against. That's what they are: Christmas trees.

It doesn't bother me a bit when people say, 'Merry Christmas' to me. I don't think they are slighting me or getting ready to put me in a ghetto. In fact, I kind of like it It shows that we are all brothers and sisters celebrating this happy time of year. It doesn't bother me at all that there is a manger scene on display at a key intersection near my beach house in Malibu . If people want a crèche, it's just as fine with me as is the Menorah a few hundred yards away.

I don't like getting pushed around for being a Jew, and I don't think Christians like getting pushed around for being Christians. I think people who believe in God are sick and tired of getting pushed around, period. I have no idea where the concept came from that America is an explicitly atheist country. I can't find it in the Constitution and I don't like it being shoved down my throat.

Or maybe I can put it another way: where did the idea come from that we should worship celebrities and we aren't allowed to worship God as we understand Him? I guess that's a sign that I'm getting old, too. But there are a lot of us who are wondering where these celebrities came from and where the America we knew went to.

In light of the many jokes we send to one another for a laugh, this is a little different: This is not intended to be a joke; it's not funny, it's intended to get you thinking.

Billy Graham's daughter was interviewed on the Early Show and Jane Clayson asked her 'How could God let something like this happen?' (regarding Katrina) Anne Graham gave an extremely profound and insightful response. She said, 'I believe God is deeply saddened by this, just as we are, but for years we've been telling God to get out of our schools, to get out of our government and to get out of our lives. And being the gentleman He is, I believe He has calmly backed out. How can we expect God to give us His blessing and His protection if we demand He leave us alone?'

In light of recent events... terrorist attacks, school shootings, etc. I think it started when Madeleine Murray O'Hare (she was murdered, her body found a few years ago) complained she didn't want prayer in our schools, and we said OK. Then someone said you better not read the Bible in school. The Bible says thou shalt not kill, thou shalt not steal, and love your neighbor as yourself. And we said OK.

Then Dr. Benjamin Spock said we shouldn't spank our children when they misbehave because their little personalities would be warped and we might damage their self-esteem (Dr Spock's son committed suicide). We said an expert should know what he's talking about. And we said OK.

Now we're asking ourselves why our children have no conscience, why they don't know right from wrong, and why it doesn't bother them to kill strangers, their classmates, and themselves.

Probably, if we think about it long and hard enough, we can figure it out. I think it has a great deal to do with 'WE REAP WHAT WE SOW.'

Funny how simple it is for people to trash God and then wonder why the world's going to hell. Funny how we believe what the newspapers say, but question what the Bible says. Funny how you can send 'jokes' through e-mail and they spread like wildfire but when you start sending messages regarding the Lord, people think twice about sharing. Funny how lewd, crude, vulgar and obscene articles pass freely through cyberspace, but public discussion of God is suppressed in the school and workplace.

Funny how we can be more worried about what other people think of us than what God thinks of us.

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Tennessee TITANS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


I can hardly contain myself thinking about the game Sunday. I hope we can hold our composure and "bring it" to Jacksonville!! What a defensive line, and what about Kerry Collins??????? MVP (aged to perfection:)!!)GO-OOOOOOOO Titans!!

Thankful for our Brave Heros


Thank you to each man and woman that defend our freedom each day. You are each heros! God Bless America, Land and Home of the FREE!

Sunday, November 9, 2008

Titans 9-0 BAB-EEE!!!



Life may not be good on Rocky Top but it sure is in Titan Town!!!! Go Titans!!!

Catching Up


I have been slacking at blogging lately. Life sometimes happens and things do not turn out the way I plan them to. But I am working on rolling with it and enjoying all the spur of the moments. Speaking of spur-of-the-moment, yesterday after breakfast Mark and I headed out to drive down this really back, back country-road. We could remember driving down it a long time ago. We found it, but we also found this road (pig-path is what i called it) and it was beautiful. The road was curvy, (to say the least)and the leaves were falling and it was still early morning so the sun was sparkling on the fall leaves, Wow, we were just in awe of how pretty the scenery was down this cute country, country road. After we got our "fix" of riding we went to search out plates. This is my hobby not Marks'. However, he likes to "hunt" for old car emblems, old vintage car advertisements, old lures and such, so he does his thing and I do mine. Which is good because usually together we come up with some really good finds. But yesterday we did not turn up with anything. Which is sometimes the case. We will hit it again soon. Eveybody (besides me) went riding today after church. We went to Earlyville today with my Uncle and Aunt and their family. Actually my brothers and their families were there also. My cousin, Philips' son Lucas, preached there today. He did a good job. I just admire these young men that get up and preach with such zeal. I did not want to ride today, I had things to do at home and I like the times I am here alone. I tend to get more things done, or not.. I hope everyone enjoyed their weekend. GO TITANS!!!

Gratitude





Gratitude is defined as..the quality or feeling of being thankful.Everyone defines gratitude differently, which is a good thing. Like I tell my kids, if we were all the same we would be boring. So what I am grateful for may seem silly or crazy to others, but that is okay. I try to remember to be a blessing to others daily. It does not require much to just lighten the load of others. When life gets overwhelming (and when doesn't it?) it's easy to forget the important stuff; the large or small, that help define your life. I am grateful for time away, sleep, hearing my kids laugh, hot showers, the ability to remember, Mark, the joy of Nick. I want to share 4 benefits of giving thanks...it helps you feel in control, it improves your health, it helps you cope better with trauma, and it helps with self-worth and self-esteem. I am grateful that I know God and can talk to him anytime, anywhere. So take time this week to slow down, (I am trying) help others in some small way, and look around we are so blessed. I am grateful for the "now" moments.

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Vol Tickets 4 Sale


Kallie and Evan have 2 tickets for sale, $80. You can enjoy homecoming, say farewell to Phil :) or :( however you feel about it, and hoop it up!!

Yeeepeeeeeeeeeee Now Take Down Your Signs


I am so proud that today is election day! All the mud-sligging, trash-talking, can cease, please. And while we are at it, make sure to take down all the Vote for......signs. My ADD has been working OT. I think I have to read them all and drive and sometimes talk on the phone and Help me if I trying to text, I am strung out from all of it. And today I wanted to look at everyone who was holding a sign or sitting by a sign. ENOUGH!!!!!!!
All jokes and kidding aside, I am thankful we have the right to vote. But I think everything is carried waaaaay tooo far. For instance, Monday, at Walmart, the Halloween candy was on clearance, the Christmas trees were (are) up, Thanksgiving
is not even here and, and , and Christmas music was blast--ing. I am just a little uptight about how commerical everything has gotten. I am trying to enjoy the here and NOW but the future is being pushed down my throat.

Speaking of the here and NOW, and throat, I have a piece of apple pie and ice cream waiting on me; apple pie and the election returns I love it. Just take down those signs:)))))))))))))

Saturday, November 1, 2008

Busy Day


We were so busy today doing alittle of everything. We were sad to store our boat for the winter, however it is nice to have a place to put it out of the weather. Billy Wood and friends purchased the A.O.Smith building sometime ago and are renting office spaces and storage for boats, jet skis, and RVs.(climate controlled which is important) I guess with the new month the holiday season is quickly approaching. Honestly, I love Thanksgiving. I love to be with family and enjoy getting to hear what is new with everyone. I took down Halloween and put Thanksgiving in its place. I have adopted the less is best attitude for the past several years, so it is not a all day thing to change decorations. We are begining to put up our outdoor furniture as well, and it brings on a couped up feeling already. I am a warm weather gal and even though it really has not gotten very cold in the past several years, I just feel better when it is hot. So between all the above and a bad case of ADD today I feel pooped tonight. But tomorrows lunch is almost done and after church and lunch, ahhhhhhhhh Sunday nap. Love, Love , Love Sundays:)