Why I am blogging......

I started this blog to up-date others on the day-to-day events of our family. As the children grew older, and I grew wiser, I realized I wanted to change my direction, and the children wanted to be ommitted from the blog completely. I hope to still manage to include them from time to time but perhaps just through pictures. I am searching for my niche, and way to help lighten the load of others and perhaps lead others to my savior, Jesus Christ. I am focusing on "What really matters" and hopefully, I can help others in some small productive way. While I am changing gears, I will still be throwing in random thoughts, recipes and etc. I am glad you stopped by and bear with me, as I begin to grow and span my wings and fly in a new direction!

Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Happy New Year



HAPPY NEW YEAR BLOGGING BUDDIES AND READERS!!!!! We of course do not have any real big plans for tonight. First, I am going to try to be awake at midnight. I probably will not make it, but I will try to make it past my usual 9:30 to 10:30 time!:)))) Mark and Kyle are going riding tomorrow and Evan and Kallie but I have elected to stay home and do my thing.

I hope the new year brings you, peace, happiness, and love. I know we are experiencing some really different economic times but we will make it, I think it is good for us to learn to live with less, at least for my family it is, we are so blessed, we just need to pass our blessings along to someone who needs lifting up. I am gonna let my light shine in 2009!!! Please join me. Smile at the person next to you in line or at the traffic signal, more than likely they will smile back!:))))

Monday, December 29, 2008

A Good Day....

I was in a deep, good sleep this morning around 8:00 a.m. until I was rattled by the door bell. You know when you are sleeping everything sounds loud, well I thought first of all who in the world is here at this time of the morning, and two why are they pushing the bell so many times. I stumbled through the house, dog barking, and looking just real lovely, and I looked out the door hole, or whatever you call it and nobody was there. So, I opened the door and again, nothing. So as the bell continued to ring, and Nick continued to bark, I went to the front door, nobody.. so I had to unplugged the bell and go promptly for the diet coke. So, after two small bottles of DC and two hours of HGTV I was good to go. I think maybe the neighbors garage door opener and our bell is on the same frequency?!

I got a haircut today and afterwards I did a quick trip to M'boro. Is it just me or what???? those people are uptight and quick tempered in the 'boro. I felt like I was on a race track whipping in and out of traffic just trying to not get in the way of others. I did not buy anything except a pair of shoes for Kallie. The sales are not good enough yet for me, I will try back later.

I went by Whitt's BBQ and got supper for the gang tonight. I get so tired of holiday food that just sounded good. Well, I was informed I did not buy enough, which I did. My kids think if there is not a crock pot full of something there is not enough!!!! So, I told them next time I would bring the ole pot with me and just drive up and say fill 'er up!!!!heheheheheheeeeeeeeeee Kids!!!!!

Yesterday while at Loews, Mark was loading a carton of tile into his truck. He picked all of the cartons up by the strap and loaded them. However, the last carton did not have a sturdy strap and it broke after he had it probably chest high. It feel on top of his foot and I know he saw stars!!! I was already in the truck, but heard him yell and I thought he had broken his foot. It is bruised deeply, but he would not get a x-ray. I felt so sorry for him, he is a good guy but it seems crazy things happen to him. I know the carton weighs 50+ pounds.


Have a good Tuesday---let your light shine!!!!!

Sunday, December 28, 2008

Ahhhhh Sunday


I just love Sunday's. After Church this morning everyone separated and went our own ways. Kyle went to the lake, fishing, Kallie and Evan shopping with friends in M'boro and Poo and Doo to Lowes.

We are trying to do some small home improvements, everything is soooooo expensive. I have painted several things that I would have just thrown away in the past and bought new. Ya know this whole economy thing may just be the discipline I need. Our Wal-mart trips have sure been cut. I still go but less frequently.

Check out "Doos did you know" to the left-just some fun stuff to read. Have a good week. Happy New Year, can you even believe that another year has passed???

Saturday, December 27, 2008

A hint of Summertime in the Air


I am loving this warm weather!! I have a few windows up airing the house out, and we even grilled last night! It was good to smell "summer" in the air. I have accomplished some things on my do-to-list. I donated ten bags of coats, clothes and household items to goodwill yesterday. I organized the walk in closet which was the crawl in closet! I have my tree down, I usually leave my mantle decorations and outside decorations up until the new year.

I have been reflecting on what changes I want to make to me in 2009. I have started a list. I think it is important to remember to change and that change is good. After all, change is what keeps us young!

Thursday, December 25, 2008

An afternoon with the Garrison's

Rocking it Out!!!!
The Rose between the thorns!!!!!!hehehehe

And you thought cloning wasn't legal yet!!!!!

Happiness Is.....Family******




We had a great morning sharing stories of Christmas' past and opening gifts. The kids are so funny, and we are so happy to have them. I cannot imagine how lonely it would be to have a silent house and a house without "life".

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

I invite you to....

Click on "Week in Pictures" under blogs I visit and enjoy a year in pictures. Wow, so much has gone on during the past year.

Christmas Eve @ Pa and Janice's.....



Merry Christmas everyone!!!!

We are so blessed with family and with love. I cannot imagine how life would be without God, and family. We had a good time this afternoon at Pa's and Janice's. Great food, which is a huge job for Janice, but she has not yet given in to letting us help bring food. I am thankful for both Pa and Janice they are good examples and great people.

Mark, Kyle, Chase and Darrell got up early, early this morning and headed to the duck blind. Oh, the stories that come home with them are so good. I am thankful for Chase and Darrell always including Kyle (and Mark) when he can go. I know they enjoy going. It is the whole duck hunting experience that I think is so cool. They cook, and carry on all day. I think it is important for them to be together. Kyle has met some really good, nice guys (older gentlemen) from Chattanooga and they have taught him things you just do not learn in school. Also, Chase is great with Kyle. He takes him deer, turkey, and dove hunting and teaches him so much. Also, Kyle gets to fish tournaments with Chase. How cool is that????? Mark says Kyle has the life..
and he does, and we are thankful that he does!!!

Kallie worked today, and so did Evan. Evan had to work cows and he told us that the work he did today is harder than his regular work. I am sure it is. He is such a good guy. Another blessing in our life.

I was busy all day trying to get my house picked up for the incoming storm that will hit in the morning!!! We have really, really cut back this year, but you know what?? we still have plenty. I am thankful for maturity, because it has taken me until I have turned 44 to realize how blessed I am.

Monday, December 22, 2008

Happy Birthday to...


Happy birthday to you, happy birthday to you, happy birthday Randy, happy birthday to you!!!!!!!!!Love you!!!!!!!!!!!!

Happy birthday to you, happy birthday to you, happy birthday Evan, happy birthday to you!!!!!!!! Love you too!!!!!!

Merry Christmas...


I hope everyone is ready for Christmas! I am..not really, but I am looking forward to being with family. I would like Christmas day to be family + thankfulness + food = enjoyment! I would like to see less commericalism, less stress, less hurry, less having to, less hussel and bussel. Ya know everyone I talk to seems to feel the same exact way, so I wonder why we all still seem to get caught up in the "yuck" part of the holidays??????

I have been sick with the coughing and headache thing that almost everyone has right now. I have gone to the doctor for an injection and meds, I cannot take anything OTC because of my BP, and still it is hanging on and making me really draggy. Anyway, I missed work last Tuesday and camped out on the couch and in the bed. I did manage to turn the TV on just for noise and I became soooo depressed. All I heard was loom and doom for the big three, unemployment rate sky-rocketing, wall street falling, I thought if I stayed home all the time or if I was retired and listened to this all the time, I would be crazy. (more so than I am!) This is my thinking on bailouts, handouts, unemployment. First, I believe, the fat-cat CEOS should take a pay decrease, and they should not receive pay bonus, especially now. I think if their salaries were cut and some kind of realistic pay scale "cap" could be introduced, it would help poor ole Joe and Jean!!! On handouts.....I want to say my upcoming comments are harsh, but I think if you have two children and you are being helped in anyway by the government, the government should also provide mandatory sterilization. Harsh yes, however, many many women learn to work the system, and have litters of children and we work everyday to feed them. I also believe if you are receiving any type of government help, you should be required to provide an urine specimen. Working people have to submit to random drug testing, so I believe if you are getting help, you should prove you are not doing illegal drugs.

Also, several weeks ago, we went to Bass Pro for something for Kyle. Mark drove and I was taking in the "sights". Every construction sight I looked at, every hole dug out along the interstate, every building being built had one thing in common. I did not see one, not one, white man or woman, nor African American man or woman working.... All Hispanics, yes ALL. Is it because they WILL work???? Yes.... I was ranting and carrying on until Mark finally turned the radio up!!!!

President elect Obama has a HUGE task before him. I am praying for him and his administration. What a mess to walk into!!! I admire him for even wanting the job!! Whether it be Obama or Hillary this is a mess that will take many, many years to even begin to straighten out.

However, the bad economy and loom and doom has done one thing; it has captured our attention!!!!

I am reminded of this... "I do not know what the future holds, but I DO KnOW WHO holds the future".

On a much lighter note, I got a new camera for my birthday!! I love, love, love it!! It is a red (my fav color) Casio. I recommend it, easy to use and takes great pics.

Friday, December 5, 2008

Happy Friday





This is my idea of a great Christmas!!!! At the beach, ah-hhhhh I can hear the waves now and Mark snoring under the umbrella!!! I sit and people watch and just stare at the water. I am there if only in thoughts.

I hope everyone enjoys the weekend. Plan now to take time for yourself, you will be a better you Monday morning:)

Merry Christmas from the beach....even if it is just a dream!!!

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Worn-to-a Fazzle-Wednesday


Wh-------------ew! What a great day it has been, however, I am too pooped to pop!!!
I am busy (who isn't) everywhere I go! But, thankful for being able to be busy!!

I have been "tagged" by Paula to answer the following questions:

1. Wrapping paper or gift bags? Both



2. Real tree or Artificial? I like real, but have artificial



3. When do you put up your tree? Thanksgiving day after we eat.



4. When do you take the tree down? Christmas day!!! I get closatosa:)


5. Do you like eggnog? Not really



6. Favorite gift received as a child? Baby Tender Love-(doll) then I ran over her with my pink bike that had a white basket, it left a tire mark on her leg and I told everyone it was a birthmark:)))))))))))))))))))hehehehheheheheeeeeeeeee

7. Hardest person to buy for? Daddy



8. Easiest person to buy for? the kids


9. Do you have a nativity scene? No



10. Mail or email Christmas cards? Mail-real written envelopes too, no labels



11. Worst Christmas gift you received as a child? A majorette(spelling?) outfit. Can you believe that? With the hat and the baton --it was red with white trim. (Dress) How random, I was the biggest tom-boy ev--er. My front four teeth were missing from a football game in the back yard---mean as a snake and then receive a majorette outfit????? Momma must have been very, very desperate.:( :(:(


12. Favorite Christmas movie? National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation



13. When do you start your Christmas shopping? Usually the day after Thanksgiving



14. Have you ever recycled a Christmas gift? Yes



15. Favorite thing to eat at Christmas? Christmas morning breakfast-ham, etc

16. Colored lights or clear on tree? both


17. Favorite Christmas song? Tennessee Christmas


18. Travel at Christmas or stay home? Home


19. Can you name all of Santa's reindeer? maybe


20. Angel or star on top of tree? neither


21. Open presents Christmas Eve or Christmas? Both

22. Most annoying thing about this time of the year? tooooo commercial

23. Favorite ornament?Santa in his flip flops hanging in a hammack reading a book

24. What do you want for Christmas this year? happiness throughout

25. Favorite holiday treat(cake,cookie,dessert)? anything peanut butter---balls, pie

Monday, December 1, 2008

Calling All Prayers.......


Kat's dad Hubert Hall is very ill. He is having surgery at this time, and has lots of medical problems. It is a scary time for Kat and her family. Please pray from them.

Also, please pray for my buddy Ginger Dunn's dad, Ozle Allen. He is also ill and trying to improve after receiving a pacemaker. Prayer is powerful and praying for friends and family is a blessing in itself. Please keep these families and gentlemen in your thoughts and prayers.

Sunday, November 30, 2008

Oh No it's Monday, almost......



Where does all my "free" time go?????? Just yesterday it way three days before Thanksgiving and I was feeling good about all the time I had to get things done. And before I could wink, it is Sunday night and I am feeling sad that all of last week has gone by so quickly. I did manage to get many things accomplished; house alittle more orangized, some shopping done, Christmas up, Thanksgiving down and done, one bathroom in the middle of renovation, stomach virus, (yuck, yuck) dog groomed, senior pics ordered, time with family,:), whew!

Today I visited my new neighbor Lisa. I am so proud she is just across the yard from me. We are just good friends, that share laughs, cries, and the same humor. I am so happy she is near.

We ate supper with Uncle Darrell, and Aunt Dawn , and Chase. We love being with them as much as Kyle does!

Time really does get away---I am taking it all in and enjoying every moment. HOpe everyone has a great week, remember Mondays=lots of coffee:)))))

Saturday, November 29, 2008

Loving Thanksgiving but........




I have been so busy and unable to blog. Thanksgiving was good, we enjoyed being with family. The plan was to come to our house, however, plans changed when I got up Wednesday with the stomach virus. Yuck!!! However, twelve hours later, I was ok. We went to Pa's and Griggy's and even though I was not hungry my family was and everything turned out great. Kallie and Evan ate with us then headed to Evan's house and ate with his family and then we all gathered at Pa and Janice's. Kyle seemed to enjoy himself, but duck season open Friday morning and he has been waiting on this since last season. He is a lucky boy, his cousin Chase takes him to his blind and hunts. He has been gone since Thursday night. They hunt every weekend and whenever they can during the week until it closes. I am glad he has Chase and Dawn and Darrell, he loves to go to their house and be with them. I think he is their entertainment!

Christmas decorations are up at our house. But I am already needing the lake, beach or some kind of water and sun. I know, winter is not even offically here and I am already longing for the hot sun. I just love it.

I hope everyone had a great holiday. It goes by so-o fast.

Friday, November 21, 2008

Weekend Plans


What a wacky, crazy, long but short week!? If you understand that you are in my mind-set. I am happy it is over and the weekend is here. I hope to go "junkin" tomorrow and also do some "real shopping. I am an internet shopper so for me to actually go shop it usually does not last long. Enjoy the weekend and find a way to get a---way:)

Thursday, November 20, 2008

What we need is each other....


Have you ever thought about how lonely it would be if we did not have each other? I sometimes enjoy being at home alone, but I am always ready for everyone to return. I enjoy talking to old friends and catching up and sharing old memories. Mark and I talk for hours about whatever pops up.

I realize that when my time is up all that will really matter is relationships, with God and someone special just to hold my hand. Thank you God for helping me to understand.

We need each other:)

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Information Overload.....


May I have a rocking chair, please? I often tell the ladies I work with that I am going to go home and rock in the corner!!! Overwhelmed is an understatement for me at the present. (for everyone!) When I come home in the afternoon I quickly turn the TV on Barefoot Contessa. This is my thirty minutes of hmmmmmm! I love, love, love her. Then I usually start a load of clothes and supper, etc. sound familiar? But if I just happen to flip the channel to 2, 4, or 5, or even CNN loom and gloom sits in, followed by dark storm clouds. I listen to the radio daily in my office, and often turn it down or off because storm clouds are developing. If I happen to have time to look at MSN on the internet often the clouds have developed on that site as well. I know that this country is struggling (to say the least) however, what is being done to help? Yes, gas is down, amen, but it seems someone needs to put their Superman cape on and fly through and rid us of the threating EF4 tornado! (why is it referred to as an EF now instead of just a F?) sorry ADD again. I am finding it hard to even think Christmas when all I hear is, now is not the time to but anything or make any big decisions.

I pray that our leaders will make good choices for our country. One thing I do know for sure.....I do not know what the future holds, but I do know who holds the future. Thank God for his Son and his saving grace.

Monday, November 17, 2008

Thanksgiving


I have been thinking about how I want my table to look for Thanksgiving. I can remember several years ago, Mark's Aunt Jozada hosted Thanksgiving. I will never forget how lovely her table looked. She has beautiful antique turkey plates. She told me they are very hard to find. Her goal is to have a twelve piece place setting for each of her boys. That is so nice of her; she is a sweet person.

I am thankful for the internet. I can always get ideas from several different sources.

This past weekend was a great one!! We stayed home Friday night, and did the normal Saturday things. (Walmart, etc.) Sunday after church, I went wa---y out of my comfort zone. I am a firm Sunday afternoon nap taker, and Titan watcher, but this Sunday after church I went four-wheeler riding with mark and the kids. I had a great time and learned it is nice to get out of my comfort zone!:) I had never been riding where they rode, and it was beautiful. Mark and I talked about it and he brought up a good point. We would never get to see this unless we had a four-wheeler. I agreed, but I honestly think he is trying to get me in the right frame of mind to drop the bomb. He wants a side-by-side something. Mark takes the bumper sticker on the back of our boat to heart. (which I did not even know was on there until recently) It reads, "Whoever dies with the most toys wins" ( or something like that) I know it is coming, I just do not know if it is a side-by-side or a jeep! He kept on saying, "Now Momma (he calls me that when he wants to persuade me) you would not get scared at all if we had a side-by-side.:):):) Anyway we went to some caves, the lake and alot of pretty places. I think spur-of-the-moment trips are the best. And I read being spontaneous keeps you young, so by all means, I will be!!!
I think it is neat the kids still "let" us be around. We like to think they always will...but probably not. You know me, I like having everyone in the nest!!! I am thankful that I realize to enjoy everyday and live it, because there may not be a tomorrow. When I was younger, I was just worried about "getting things done" and moving to the next function; That is sad, because I feel like I have not done several things that I should have, but I will make up for lost time and live for today. and maybe, just maybe I will be skinny and look younger too:):):):): Dream--------weaver------:):):):):)

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Some of my favorites





I like A.J. because he is just a good-ole-boy, that just happens to get paid the big bucks to be himself. He is so down-to-earth. I love folks like that! I will share a quick funny with ya...we were at the lake and I saw Alan's houseboat. I quickly lectured the kids to not stand up and yell at him that he deserved his privacy. Well, the closer we got to him, I noticed I got nervous. By the time we reached his boat, I was up yelling and screaming, ALAN, ALAN, ALAN!!! I was having an-out-of-body, well anyway, when I regained by composure, I looked and the kids and Mark were just sitting there calmly looking at ME being....well, Debbie!!!
Trace is just a gentleman. Every since Celebrity Apprentice, with the Donald, I have like Trace. Miranda Lambert is just a fireball!! Love,love, love her. And George, well he is soooooooo fine-------I love ALL his songs and him.

Seven Facts about Myself..strange/weird/funny/unusual...

1. I sing to Nick daily.
2. I am a carnivore (love meat)
3. I love fresh, real horseradish on peel and eat shrimp
4. I drink a diet coke every morning
5. I call my brothers "the thorns" of course I am "THE ROSE":)
6. Mark and I have nicknames that go wa-----y back, Poo and Doo, now we have the pooling and dooling and our grandchildren are going to call us Poo Poo and Doo Doo:)
7. I crow like a rooster at inappropriate times!

I feel like I have been to some kind of therapy, sharing my "guts". Kim Cantrell tagged me to share seven facts about me. Well, there you go. If you think I am a nut case (you would be right) I tag Kat and Susan. This should be great. Come one ladies, make me look normal:)heheheheheheheheheheeeeeeeee

My thoughts today...


I have thought a lot today about many different things. Christmas, (and by the way I will say Merry Christmas! People are trying to be too politically correct these days)Thanksgiving, prom, sr pictures, getting carpets cleaned, dog groomed, my birthday, work, project graduation, prom dresses, limos, leaves, Kallie not feeling well, supper whew-wwwwwwwwwwww I am in overdrive.(aren't we all)

I have promised my self to be true to God. To speak-up about my religion when it may be hard or uncomfortable for me to do so. To confess I worship a very real-loving-alive God and try to convience others to do the same. However, I also will admit I am a sinner. I think it is my responsibility to teach non-christians, that christians are not perfect. I have noticed that is the title some give to christians. This is such a mis-conception. We are just forgiven, however, grace is not a license to sin. We need to be the best we can be, and pattern our life after the perfect example,Jesus. I make many mistakes, but GRACE is a gift, (it cannot be earned) a gift from a loving-God that I want to serve. I also think it is important to realize we are here TO serve and not to BE served. Jesus, our example, served daily. I try to help someone in some small way every-day. It is not the extraordinary things we do, it is the everyday small things we can do, that lightens others loads that can makes a difference. I want to make a difference.

I am tired of thinking now!!!! My friend Delia thinks a lot and I often kid her about it!! I can't see how see does it; it wears me out!:)))))))))

My thoughts today...

Ben Stein on Religion




The following was written by Ben Stein and recited by him on CBS Sunday Morning Commentary.

My confession :
I am a Jew, and every single one of my ancestors was Jewish. And it does not bother me even a little bit when people call those beautiful lit up, bejeweled trees, Christmas trees.. I don't feel threatened. I don't feel discriminated against. That's what they are: Christmas trees.

It doesn't bother me a bit when people say, 'Merry Christmas' to me. I don't think they are slighting me or getting ready to put me in a ghetto. In fact, I kind of like it It shows that we are all brothers and sisters celebrating this happy time of year. It doesn't bother me at all that there is a manger scene on display at a key intersection near my beach house in Malibu . If people want a crèche, it's just as fine with me as is the Menorah a few hundred yards away.

I don't like getting pushed around for being a Jew, and I don't think Christians like getting pushed around for being Christians. I think people who believe in God are sick and tired of getting pushed around, period. I have no idea where the concept came from that America is an explicitly atheist country. I can't find it in the Constitution and I don't like it being shoved down my throat.

Or maybe I can put it another way: where did the idea come from that we should worship celebrities and we aren't allowed to worship God as we understand Him? I guess that's a sign that I'm getting old, too. But there are a lot of us who are wondering where these celebrities came from and where the America we knew went to.

In light of the many jokes we send to one another for a laugh, this is a little different: This is not intended to be a joke; it's not funny, it's intended to get you thinking.

Billy Graham's daughter was interviewed on the Early Show and Jane Clayson asked her 'How could God let something like this happen?' (regarding Katrina) Anne Graham gave an extremely profound and insightful response. She said, 'I believe God is deeply saddened by this, just as we are, but for years we've been telling God to get out of our schools, to get out of our government and to get out of our lives. And being the gentleman He is, I believe He has calmly backed out. How can we expect God to give us His blessing and His protection if we demand He leave us alone?'

In light of recent events... terrorist attacks, school shootings, etc. I think it started when Madeleine Murray O'Hare (she was murdered, her body found a few years ago) complained she didn't want prayer in our schools, and we said OK. Then someone said you better not read the Bible in school. The Bible says thou shalt not kill, thou shalt not steal, and love your neighbor as yourself. And we said OK.

Then Dr. Benjamin Spock said we shouldn't spank our children when they misbehave because their little personalities would be warped and we might damage their self-esteem (Dr Spock's son committed suicide). We said an expert should know what he's talking about. And we said OK.

Now we're asking ourselves why our children have no conscience, why they don't know right from wrong, and why it doesn't bother them to kill strangers, their classmates, and themselves.

Probably, if we think about it long and hard enough, we can figure it out. I think it has a great deal to do with 'WE REAP WHAT WE SOW.'

Funny how simple it is for people to trash God and then wonder why the world's going to hell. Funny how we believe what the newspapers say, but question what the Bible says. Funny how you can send 'jokes' through e-mail and they spread like wildfire but when you start sending messages regarding the Lord, people think twice about sharing. Funny how lewd, crude, vulgar and obscene articles pass freely through cyberspace, but public discussion of God is suppressed in the school and workplace.

Funny how we can be more worried about what other people think of us than what God thinks of us.

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Tennessee TITANS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


I can hardly contain myself thinking about the game Sunday. I hope we can hold our composure and "bring it" to Jacksonville!! What a defensive line, and what about Kerry Collins??????? MVP (aged to perfection:)!!)GO-OOOOOOOO Titans!!

Thankful for our Brave Heros


Thank you to each man and woman that defend our freedom each day. You are each heros! God Bless America, Land and Home of the FREE!

Sunday, November 9, 2008

Titans 9-0 BAB-EEE!!!



Life may not be good on Rocky Top but it sure is in Titan Town!!!! Go Titans!!!

Catching Up


I have been slacking at blogging lately. Life sometimes happens and things do not turn out the way I plan them to. But I am working on rolling with it and enjoying all the spur of the moments. Speaking of spur-of-the-moment, yesterday after breakfast Mark and I headed out to drive down this really back, back country-road. We could remember driving down it a long time ago. We found it, but we also found this road (pig-path is what i called it) and it was beautiful. The road was curvy, (to say the least)and the leaves were falling and it was still early morning so the sun was sparkling on the fall leaves, Wow, we were just in awe of how pretty the scenery was down this cute country, country road. After we got our "fix" of riding we went to search out plates. This is my hobby not Marks'. However, he likes to "hunt" for old car emblems, old vintage car advertisements, old lures and such, so he does his thing and I do mine. Which is good because usually together we come up with some really good finds. But yesterday we did not turn up with anything. Which is sometimes the case. We will hit it again soon. Eveybody (besides me) went riding today after church. We went to Earlyville today with my Uncle and Aunt and their family. Actually my brothers and their families were there also. My cousin, Philips' son Lucas, preached there today. He did a good job. I just admire these young men that get up and preach with such zeal. I did not want to ride today, I had things to do at home and I like the times I am here alone. I tend to get more things done, or not.. I hope everyone enjoyed their weekend. GO TITANS!!!

Gratitude





Gratitude is defined as..the quality or feeling of being thankful.Everyone defines gratitude differently, which is a good thing. Like I tell my kids, if we were all the same we would be boring. So what I am grateful for may seem silly or crazy to others, but that is okay. I try to remember to be a blessing to others daily. It does not require much to just lighten the load of others. When life gets overwhelming (and when doesn't it?) it's easy to forget the important stuff; the large or small, that help define your life. I am grateful for time away, sleep, hearing my kids laugh, hot showers, the ability to remember, Mark, the joy of Nick. I want to share 4 benefits of giving thanks...it helps you feel in control, it improves your health, it helps you cope better with trauma, and it helps with self-worth and self-esteem. I am grateful that I know God and can talk to him anytime, anywhere. So take time this week to slow down, (I am trying) help others in some small way, and look around we are so blessed. I am grateful for the "now" moments.

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Vol Tickets 4 Sale


Kallie and Evan have 2 tickets for sale, $80. You can enjoy homecoming, say farewell to Phil :) or :( however you feel about it, and hoop it up!!

Yeeepeeeeeeeeeee Now Take Down Your Signs


I am so proud that today is election day! All the mud-sligging, trash-talking, can cease, please. And while we are at it, make sure to take down all the Vote for......signs. My ADD has been working OT. I think I have to read them all and drive and sometimes talk on the phone and Help me if I trying to text, I am strung out from all of it. And today I wanted to look at everyone who was holding a sign or sitting by a sign. ENOUGH!!!!!!!
All jokes and kidding aside, I am thankful we have the right to vote. But I think everything is carried waaaaay tooo far. For instance, Monday, at Walmart, the Halloween candy was on clearance, the Christmas trees were (are) up, Thanksgiving
is not even here and, and , and Christmas music was blast--ing. I am just a little uptight about how commerical everything has gotten. I am trying to enjoy the here and NOW but the future is being pushed down my throat.

Speaking of the here and NOW, and throat, I have a piece of apple pie and ice cream waiting on me; apple pie and the election returns I love it. Just take down those signs:)))))))))))))

Saturday, November 1, 2008

Busy Day


We were so busy today doing alittle of everything. We were sad to store our boat for the winter, however it is nice to have a place to put it out of the weather. Billy Wood and friends purchased the A.O.Smith building sometime ago and are renting office spaces and storage for boats, jet skis, and RVs.(climate controlled which is important) I guess with the new month the holiday season is quickly approaching. Honestly, I love Thanksgiving. I love to be with family and enjoy getting to hear what is new with everyone. I took down Halloween and put Thanksgiving in its place. I have adopted the less is best attitude for the past several years, so it is not a all day thing to change decorations. We are begining to put up our outdoor furniture as well, and it brings on a couped up feeling already. I am a warm weather gal and even though it really has not gotten very cold in the past several years, I just feel better when it is hot. So between all the above and a bad case of ADD today I feel pooped tonight. But tomorrows lunch is almost done and after church and lunch, ahhhhhhhhh Sunday nap. Love, Love , Love Sundays:)

Friday, October 31, 2008

Reflecting on October


I can't believe October is over!!! It has been a beautiful month with the changes in season, and the colors of fall sprinkle around everywhere. The Haley/Garrison family has celebrated several birthdays' this month. Kallie, Daddy, (Joe B.), Jesse, and Momma (Frances, Griggy). Kallie turned 18 this month; which is a BIG number to teenagers. (I can remember) She voted for the first time, continues to maintain a 4.0, and works at McMinnville Electric System as an intern. We are so proud of her. My Dad turned 76 and looks 60!!! He walks most days of the week and is the best Dad ever! Jesse, 21, goes to school at Lipscomb, works at the Ronald McDonald house preparing meals every Wednesday night, and stays busy with lots of activities. Momma, 74, looks 60 also, has a lot of bad days but still maintains her house and cooks a big lunch everyday for Dad and whoever drops by, (me & my brothers). We have not offically celebrated the birthdays since Jesse and Ross are away but we will as soon as we can all get together. Even though winter is coming it is good to know I have the warmth of family.

Thursday, October 30, 2008

Random Acts of Kindness


I have been admiring a couple that walks in our neighborhood for months. I noticed their expressions at first. I see them early in the morning, when I am going for my route 44 at Sonic before work. They are walking sometimes hand-in-hand and look so sweet together. They are talking and smiling and enjoying the morning and each other! That is refreshing to me since I seem in a hurry all the time. They are always dressed sporty and their hair neatly groomed and white. Which means in my eyes they are very wise. They have been around a lot of different people and lived in alot of different economical times.But, as I have continued to watch them I have been noticing them carrying Kroger plastic bags and picking up garbage along the side of the road. Wow! Do they have to? No. But they WANT to!!! I think that is so nice for everyone in our neighborhood. And what a nice example. I will be sending them a note to say thank you for being so kind to others. I am seeing something new everyday and I love it. Thank you God for my eyes to see all the good others do and your wonderful creation, and of course my family.

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

CODE BLUE.....TITANS RULE, BAB---EE!




The game last night was great. The ONLY thing that would have been better is being there! During the opening when the camera was showing the crowd, Hank, and Jeff (my, my) Mark said we should be there, I was like ye--ah. But we wasn't so, we had chili and enjoyed code blue in our house. I am so excited for us!!! We are undefeated and our "line" is kill--er. I had my flag out and flying yesterday on my truck, thought I was being all in-to-it and everything, I had on my Titan blue, feeling good, and Kyle promptly took the flag off my truck and told me this is embarrassing. Nothing like a teenager, to spoil the moment. Hehehheheheheheheee:(

Ok, is it me or does the Rays what to win or not??? I feel some serious dragging in the butt. Another rain delay so I guess we will have to see tomorrow if we can capture a win. I sure hope so.

Saturday, October 25, 2008

Where Has my Saturday gone????

I do not know where today has gone!! I have been busy all day doing the usual, but all the sudden it is Saturday night. Kyle is with Chase and Kallie and Evan have gone riding with their friends. I just spoke to her and they were building a fire and fixing smores. I told Mark what they were doing, and he said "such fun times"! I agree, even though we did not ride four-wheelers, we used to go to the mountains and ride in trucks through the trails and sometimes get really stuck and be there for awhile. I remember one time, we was on the mountain and had a big fire built, someone was playing guitar and singing and everyone was circled around the fire. Well, it was dark, dark and I walked up and grabbed Mark's hand and stood there for awhile, never looking at him, until I noticed him across the circle looking at me!! Oh well, even then I was spreading the love, I just did not know with who!! hehehehe

I am still pulling for those Rays!!!! They are in rain delay, we are flipping channels watching the Vols and checking in with the Rays. Mark and I are showing our age, we are at home on yard patrol and anxiously awaiting our first victims. Let the good times roll!!!

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Thinking and Praying about Rain...



I seriously hope and pray we get some rain this week. The water tables are low and the dust from mowing or chopping leaves is choking us to death! I love rainy nights when you can hear it on your bedroom windows, of course it has to be really, really raining for me to hear it over my box fan on high!:) Yeah, I love my fan, turn it off and I sit straight up in the bed!

The World Series started tonight and I am pulling for the Tampa Bay Rays. Why did they drop Devil from their name? Is it the obvious, they just do not want devil in their name, or something else?

I am going to try to early vote tomorrow. I am not totally sure how I am going to vote, but I do know that it is important that we all vote!! I thought life would get easier, when I grew up, huh, that is what I get for thinking!:) I am learning something new everyday and loving it. It is fun to not know everything I have decided. I do get flustrated when the word idiot appears on my forehead and only my kids can see it!!!!! I am going to get my sight checked, it keeps appearing and for the life of me I cannot see it. If you see me and it is there, pleazzzzzzz tell me:)

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

I love Fall but...


This is what I love the most. Half Moon Bay in CA is one of the places I would love to visit. I discovered this location through Dan Hellers' photography. He does fantastic photography,I just feel in love with his work. I get alittle down during the winter months. I like the snow, but we do not get the snow like we did when I was little. I can remember real snow days. Sledding, real snow ball fights, snow as deep as your knees and being out-of-school for two weeks.

However, Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday. I love the food and being with friends and family. I like the feelings that surround Thanksgiving. A grateful heart and the whole simplicity of the day. It seems as though, everything is so commercial these days. Heck, at Big Lots you have a Halloween isle followed by Christmas isles. I want to slow down and take time to live today and not rush through just to get to the next event. Am I getting old? Yes! But I think I have matured spiritually, taking time to be thankful for the moment I am living now. I appreciate everything God has blessed me with, including the gift of being thankful.

Monday, October 20, 2008

"Monday, Monday" (Mamas and the Papas')


Mondays, not my favorite day of the week. I am not a real morning person, so double that on Monday mornings. No, I am not chop your head off mean, but I am not chatty in the mornings. The way I look at it there is just not much to talk about early in the morning. After a diet coke and a cup of coffee I am usually in better spirits. Caffeine is my friend in the morning but my enemy at night.

My house is quiet tonight. Monday's tend to have that effect:) Kallie and Evan cooked again tonight!!! I could get use to this. Mark, Kyle and I were mowing, blowing, choking, and weed-eating. The dust almost got me; I am praying for rain, it is so-ooo dry. Anyway, they grilled hamburgers, and baked fries and it was great.

All day I have been thinking of the up-coming election, not just nationally but locally. FYI-the same two men have been the Mayor since 1985!? Can you believe that? I do not know how to vote, but it seems I am kinda leaning toward, if your "in" you need to be "out". I know that comes from flustration-this is the scariest time I can remember. The economy, high prices, housing market, 401k,and it seems everytime I turn the radio on or TV that is all you hear, and I tend to get wrapped up in all the bad news. However, I am determined to be thankful for all of the blessings in my life. We are Christians, healthy, we have a house, and a warm bed,each other, and a warm-supportive family. So sometimes I just snap myself out of the loom and gloom and think positive. I am much happier positive than negative.